My ex-boyfriend was emotionally abusive to me, and he loved his Spanish class. He talked about everything Spanish: from language to culture and everything in between. (I took French). He would sometimes even talk in Spanish. Now, everytime I hear someone say anything Spanish or talk about the Spanish/Mexican culture, I freak out by thinking immediately about my ex-boyfriend. How can I overcome this?

our city - Hanoi. There is no mexican restaurant around, and our targeted customers are foreigners who come to Hanoi. I just want to know if you guys love mexican food? if you came over here, would you like to go to a mexican restaurant here. We would make everything mexican. Could you guys suggest the name for the restaurant, i don't want something like texmex, want something relating to mexican culture. Please help, i will choose the best answer. Thank you in advance.