wierd relationship with a mexican girl that speaks no english?

this mexican girl that speaks no english has worked at our family restaurant for a year until she quit recently in may. i speak some spanish but we mostly communicate through text message with translations from yahoo answers. a month after she quit i asked her to go out and we went out 3 times. i took her to the mall, bowling, aquarium. i kissed her on the third time we went out. one week later i took her to play tennis and we didnt go out for a month. we didn’t communicate very much either after we kissed. then i asked her out to go shopping and said yes. i bought her a few things because she is poor and after i dropped her off she kissed me, (she made the move) i told her that i cared about her but i dont know what to do now. she is extremely pretty and has guys hitting on her non-stop. she is 23 and good good catholic girl. she is very very nice. i dont know if she likes me or she kissed me because i bought her some clothes. what to do?


  1. Well, in my opinion, if you want to know whether she likes you or not, you should ask her IN THE RIGHT MOMENT if she likes you or not. Let it not be via telephone or any kind of messenger; do it personal. You will see her reaction. You should be able to judge whether she likes you or not; well, I think so (lol). When you decide to ask her if she likes you, do it after you two have had lots of fun or maybe at a special restaurant. Let’s say after you guys been bowling, eating, or whatever, as soon as she is about to enter her house (assuming that you walked her all the way to her house door) say to her, “Espera (wait)”. Then you hand her a piece of paper that says “¿Me quieres? (Do you like me?)”. I don’t know what kind of paper. As long as it has the message on it and the paper isn’t crumbled up, it’s cool. So do that. It’s either that way or at the table in a special restaurant.

    Also, keep on taking her to places. Ask her where she would like to go. She will get the point that you like her. Now, if she starts to put excuses on not wanting to go out with you somewhere, then she probably doesn’t want to go out with you. This is life. But I really do think she likes you because she kissed you and “made the move”. No girl is about to do that just because they bought her a pair of shoes or whatever. If she didn’t like you, she would have just said thank you and goodbye. You be the judge.

    After vigorously meditating on why she has been acting so strange or rather, not letting you know for certainty whether she likes you or not, or has not determined to let you know she likes you, I found out why this peculiar act might be occurring. I think it is because, first of all, both of you CAN’T even communicate with each other, WITH ALL YOUR RESPECT. Secondly, she might be thinking that you are buying her all these stuff, inviting her to places, etc. because you just like her physical NOT her real person; what’s inside. Finally, she might probably want to marry you but there are a few problems: She is a Mexican, you’re not; her whole family is Mexican; yours isn’t; she is poor, you’re not; she isn’t a citizen, you are; and she feels strange being in that situation especially when both of you can barely comprehend each other.

    Hope this helps.

  2. She seems nice. Take care of her, friends or dating. Learn a bit of spanish, and make it your little love talk language. It’s always fun to talk and know nobody in the room can understand you.

  3. well what did she say when you said you cared about her? lol. She sounds very reserved and a lil timid. I’d keep going the way you’re going. She’s into you. I’ve found most latina’s let you lead the pace of a relationship but are very open to it getting serious fast. The first and second kiss have been established, make out with her.

  4. First of all, if you like her, maybe you should overlook the fact that she’s ‘poor.’ The communication gap makes it complicated enough, but you should always consider that she likes you for you, and not for the things you bought her. After all, she did agree to go out with you more than one time, and you didn’t necessarily buy her things all of those times did you?

    If you want to persue this and see where it goes, you should try to learn a bit of spanish, then you can also teach her english… Unless she’s already trying to learn english, then that might be a clue that she likes you too. See how things go, and if it seems that her intensions are not good, then you move on. Hope this helped. Good luck


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